Johari Window,
because it is not clearly known by either the bully
or anyone around him. But, take my word for it; it is
definitely true. Bullies keep on pushing and
shoving and yelling and attacking and throwing their
weight around because it is the only way they can think
of to keep a tight rein on the people around them that
they truly need in their lives in order to survive.
Here's the truth: You are not really a tough guy at
all. You are weak and afraid; you just don't want anyone
to know it.
There are a lot of reasons that guys become
bullies. We are not going to discuss any of them
here because frankly, it doesn't matter. You can spend
three years in therapy figuring out that part
if you want to. The important thing is that it has to
stop now. And it can. Quit making excuses. Get
your houseboat out of "De-Nial." Face the
man in the mirror. And get ready to change.
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