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Anger in the Workplace:
Releasing the Tight Grip of Anger
A powerful anger management
tool is learning to let go of anger. Anger is
made of thoughts and energy, so it's not a
substantial and solid thing, and we should be
able to just let it go. However in our mind
anger becomes very substantial and solid
indeed, and letting go seems next to
impossible.
Yet we can let anger go. We can shift our
relationship to anger, we can shift our
allegiance to always grabbing onto it and
holding our mind in a tight and rigid grip. We
can learn to soften and ease our angry mind.
So how do we do it? In some ways this is a non
question. We just let it go. We deliberately
disengage the anger response. We take charge of
our state of mind and say, "I'm not going to
get angry right now. I'm going to drop it."
This is an interesting exercise, because in a
way it's very straightforward and easy to do.
We just let it go, like dropping a hot coal
that is burning in our fist.
Yet in another way it's tremendously
challenging because we are deeply habituated to
squeezing that hot coal with every ounce of our
strength. Letting it go seems next to
impossible. But if we don't let it go, there we
are with our anger year after year after. And
as difficult as it is, the real question is,"
Are we going to make that first move or
not....?" At the end of the day it's really up
to us.
Letting go is different than suppressing anger.
Suppression involves actively shutting the
energy down, stuffing it inside in a way that
causes us harm. Suppression would be ignoring
that you have a hot coal in your hand, and then
you just put it in your pocket, except you
didn't even know you put it there. Meanwhile it
burns and creates a deep suffering and
confusion in your state of mind at a
subconscious level.
Letting go on the other hand is seeing anger
clearly, and deciding not to consume it. You
consciously decide not to bite your teeth into
anger, and you don't let it bite into you
either. You experience the anger, you feel the
burning pain of it, and you decide, "I'm not
going to do this to myself," and you just
release your grip.
An Exercise
Choose a day, and on that day make a deep
commitment to let go of anger. Say to yourself,
"I know I will probably experience anger today,
and I am happy about that because it is going
to afford me the opportunity to practice
letting go of anger." Develop a very clear and
powerful resolution that when you experience
anger on this day, you are going to release the
hot coal from your hand a let it fall to the
ground.
This isn't easy, especially at first. As soon
as anger comes up we have deep seated habitual
patterns of either suppressing it or acting it
out, and the seduction of these patterns is
powerful. However with this process we are
meeting those patterns face to face, and we are
giving ourselves the opportunity to exercise
the power of our own determination.
When anger first comes up and you try the
exercise, if you succeed, great! Celebrate that
and then do it again when anger arises the next
time. If you don't succeed, then acknowledge
that. Take a moment once you have cooled down
and just let yourself acknowledge that you were
overpowered with the energy of anger, and then
say to yourself, "Alright, so be it. No
problem. I've been stuck in this pattern for a
long time, so I'm going to be kind with myself
and not feel guilty. Next time I'm going to try
again, and eventually I am going to let this
go!" And then when you feel anger again, do
your absolute best to follow through and
release your tight grip on that hot burning
energy.
When you let go of anger in this way, the
energy of anger may hang out for a time in your
body and your state of mind. This is normal and
part of the process of letting go. If you
continue to relax and open to the energy there,
eventually it will subside and/or shift into
another more open form of energy. Sometimes we
will experience sadness, or maybe our mind will
become very clear, or we might feel some
trembling as our nervous system lets go of a
long held pattern of fight or flight. In any
case, the key is to relax and stay present with
whatever happens, letting the energy in your
body/mind flow to resolution. If we have been
locked into an anger pattern for a long time,
sometimes our nervous system just needs a
little time to to integrate this new way of
being.
Once you've let go and your energy has settled,
you now have a brand choice in your set of
anger management tools.
All the best of success!
Source: Craig Mollins
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Anger is an unpleasant set of emotions we sense as a consequence to a disturbing experience. It is common but its impact differs from person to person and situation wise too. All of us experience it every day. A burst of anger can result in the most ruinous incident and most of the times, one we regret.
To govern anger one has to, realize its consequences and realize it can cause irreparable damage. Strength lies in controlling anger and the one who does so is always the bigger person. Even during an interview, senior managers intentionally query potential candidates with questions which can often lead to quick temper, but the ones with the capability to work with a smile under pressure is considered apt and mature for the job, tolerance being the winning factor.
When angry, a person loses his positive mind and attends to negative energy.
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He/she who have a grudge against another colleague, may resort to focusing only on the negativities of the opposite party and annoy at everything the other party does. The good traits are deliberately ignored, due to anger. This can cause severe damage in relationships, it leads too misunderstanding. Words spoken in anger register directly on the opposite persons mind. So, it is a prerequisite to speak carefully when angry or better yet to maintain silence. They say better the foot slips than the tongue or words go deeper than the sword; this is because Speech is an important element of communication.
We have to realize, that no good in the long run will come out of it and try hard to subside it as much as possible. Trying to meditate or practicing yoga will bring out patience and tolerating capacity.
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